Self Care is Radical: How I Spend My Free Time

It may seem hard to put life on pause and be present, especially in these crazy times. However, these moments of personal joy are crucial for maintaining balance and finding peace. Here are three activities that bring me the most joy.

Reading & Reflecting

Books have always been an escape for me and a source of knowledge. Whether I am losing myself in speculative fiction or studying for school, reading helps me process the world. I love books that are counterculture to conventional thinking and explore community, resistance, and healing themes. Reading isn’t just entertainment – it’s how I continue to grow as an advocate and caregiver.

Animal Care & Nature Connection

There’s something I find therapeutic about spending time with our farm animals. It allows me to be present with nature. Whether I’m in the barn with our chickens, out with the sheep in the pasture, or watching our ducks splash in the pond, these quiet moments matter the most. Caring for our flock is a perfect ritual for me to build my schedule around—the animals have things they need to accomplish in a day and need my help. Being in nature and around animals reminds me to slow down. It forces me to notice the small miracles happening around me.

Advocacy & Creative Problem Solving

I find some sick satisfaction in helping others navigate complex systems and find creative solutions to their challenging situations. Connecting people with resources, finding innovative ways to stretch limited means, or advocating for those facing barriers—this work invigorates me. There’s something immensely fulfilling about turning obstacles into opportunities and helping others access the support they need. This isn’t just problem-solving—it’s building community resilience and creating paths forward where none existed before.

Conclusion

These things are essential parts of how I care for myself and others. Through reading, connecting with nature and animals, and advocating, I find ways to keep learning, growing, and contributing to our local community. In a life dedicated to caregiving, these activities help me maintain my well-being while steering others toward a more just and supportive journey.